Musing1

Disappointment is high when you have expectation... But when you lose something you are certain of getting, then its plain dejection... And what strikes me funny is the consoling part.. The ones who are actually happy that you are dejected, manage to put up a polite smile, tut tut and shake their heads dramatically, all the while, having a great laugh inside.. some don't give a damn about diplomacy and have a good laugh openly! Some say,"Life is not all that easy.. Afterall this was something small.. Why do you weep over such stupid things?"... They're right.. Its probably something small.. but in 'their' perception.. I personally feel that if weeping can something out of your system, weep as much as you want.. You'd feel much better when you are done..Some people advice, when you least feel like listening to their crapping.. Some sweet souls would listen patiently, knowing very well that their advice is not needed, ask you to stop crying soon, and empathize.. Such people are worth talking to(or rather weeping to) in such times... But it takes someone greater to tell you that, "Its bad I know, but trust me, this might be a blessing in disguise.. Why dont you wait a little longer and find out....".. True... Anything you are denied is for your own good.. Afterall God is like your Mom..."No eating too many chocolates" might sound painful but in the long run 'good teeth' make the denial worth it!